"More Than Just the 'Talk'" book review

If you have kids or are thinking of having kids or ever interact with kids, read this book - especially if said kids are between the ages of 7 and 19.

"More Than Just the Talk" by Jonathan McKee is a frank book about talking to your kids about sex. Not going to lie, it really got into the nitty gritty. It talked about how to deal with masturbation, pornography addiction, and so much more. It was a real eye opener to realize how much kids know years before you think they might and how dreadful the latest TV shows and videos are in terms of damaging lies being fed to the next generation about sexual purity.

One thing I loved about this book was that instead of just trying to scare you with nightmarish statistics that might tempt you to move to the jungle, the author gives great suggestions on how to deal with every obstacle along the way. These are GREAT suggestions! Very practical and, in my humble opinion, very wise to boot.

Unfortunately, before reading this book, I would have fallen into the it'll-all-work-out-because-my-kids-don't-know-that-kind-of-stuff-yet type of parent. I couldn't have been more wrong. The beauty of reading this book while sitting in the living room was that it gave me the perfect excuse to ask my kids all kinds of questions and their answers blew my ignorance right out of the water. But, I'm so thankful that "More Than Just the Talk" came into our life when it did because since then, I've noticed that, at least some of, my kids really want to talk about a number of sex centered topics and when they saw that I wasn't afraid of this topic, it was like a flood gate opened and suddenly anything was fair game - which is great.

It also made me more proactive in helping my kids keep their minds pure. No internet while you're by yourself. No being alone with someone of the opposite gender. Nothing that leads to lust. I love how it's stated in the book. "Don't start the launch sequence." In other words, don't do anything that gets the sexual engine running outside of marriage. Very wise.

This isn't just another parenting book. This one is a must. I 100% believe I'm a better parent moving forward because I read this book. You should too!

BTW, I got a free copy of this book from Bethany House Publishing in exchange for my honest review.

"You Can Hear the Voice of God"

Absolutely, totally, forever and ever amen, YES YOU CAN!!! If you have given your life to Christ, He's talking to you. If you haven't given your life to Christ, guess what, God wants to talk to you.

"You Can Hear the Voice of God" by Steve Samson is a clearly laid out book talking about all the ways God "talks" to us. They aren't always burning bush moments. Far from it. Usually it's a nudge or a sudden thought out of nowhere. Each chapter in this book outlines a different way in which God speaks to His kids, what to expect, what it might mean and how to make the most of it.

In one part, Mr. Samson points out that most Christians "miss the supernatural because they are waiting for the spectacular." So true. If you have it in your head that God can't possibly be talking to you because gold dust isn't falling from the ceiling, than you're going to miss out on a thousand conversations with the Loving Creator of Everything. I spent years, YEARS of my life telling God my grocery list instead of conversing with Him. What a tragedy. It doesn't have to be the same with you though. You, right now can start this incredible journey and this book will definitely help.

I enjoyed this book and think it should be read by everyone. It started out well enough and then just when it started to lose my interest, picked up in a big way so stay with it. I find myself quoting this book numerous times a day. That in itself has to tell you something. I've been consumed by this subject lately (meaning I've read many books on the topic.) If it had been the first one I'd read on the subject, I would be saying absolutely nothing but glowing remarks. If you haven't read a single book on how to hear from God, this is a great place to start.

God Bless.

BTW, I got a free copy from Bethany Publishers in exchange for an honest review.

"Easter Stories" Book Review and Giveaway

Pretty ugly cover isn't it. I tell you what, this book sure isn't going to sell any copies based on its cover. The illustrations on the inside are even worse.

(This isn't my photo and it isn't my hand - I totally stole it off the internet)

"Easter Stories - Classic Tales for the Holy Season" is a compilation of short stories from a variety of authors such as C.S. Lewis, Leo Tolstoy, Alan Paton and so on. Some of the short stories are actually sections of longer works of literature as in the case of "The Death of a Lizard" by C.S. Lewis which is in fact part of "The Great Divorce".

As is inevitable in the compiling of stories by any varying authors, some are profound and some are...well...not. Right out of the gate, "The White Lily" by Jane Tyson Clement so moved me that I had to fight back the tears as I read it to my three children. But in all truthfulness, the rest of the compilation didn't hold my affects. They were nice but not as provocative. I did enjoy the wide variety of themes and styles. One was on the being kind to your neighbor, the next on the Cross, followed by one on spiritual purity.

There is definitely an orthodox feel to these stories; many saints are names and honored. But, while I don't hold to the Orthodox teachings, I am thankful for the faithful men and women who went before me and suffered so much for the sake of Christ.

Good news, I have a copy to giveaway. If you want your name in a draw for a free copy, leave a message below or on my Facebook page. Good Luck! Draw will be made March 30th, 2015.


And now for some legally required stuff:



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"Rasmus and the Vagabond" Book Review and Giveaway

Have you ever read a book that was so delightful you turned around and read it again? "Rasmus and the Vagabond" did that for me.

I average two books a week. I don't have time to reread anything. But for "Rasmus and the Vagabond", I made an exception. This book is intended for perhaps 8 to 14 year olds but the writing is so lovely that as soon as I finished reading it, I called my family together and said, "I'm going to read this to you." We've only made it to chapter 3 so far but already they're hooked too.

The author, Astrid Linden, also wrote the well known story of Pippi Longstocking. (Don't you now feel so well-informed) To be truthful, I never read that one but now, seeing as how I liked this one so much, I might just have to pick up a copy of it.

The only caution I have about "Rasmus and the Vagabond", which is a tale about an orphan who runs away from the orphanage in search of parents, is that it romanticizes running away. I recognize that this is a fictious book intended for youngsters and therefore tales of abuse and drugs is hardly appropriate, but all the same, I couldn't help but wonder if this book might in fact encourage running away. I suppose it could serve as a springboard for conversation between you and your child.

There is one spot where the runaway and the vagabond talk about ghosts but it only lasts for a few lines and there is some mild violence as they come into contact with robbers. On the whole, I would feel comfortable putting this into the hands of any child since the violence is not glorified and the ghosts aren't made a big deal of.

If you have an 8 to 14 year old, "Rasmus and the Vagabond" would make a lovely read aloud. The first three chapters have already made my kids laugh and wanting more. (They are aged 12, 13 and 15)

So if you want a free copy - as in TOTALLY FREE, leave a comment below. The winner will have a copy mailed to them at no charge straight from the publisher. Good luck. Draw will be made February 19th, 2015.


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"Blindsided By God"

Author Peter Chin knocked it out of the park with this one. "Blindsided By God" gets my enthusiastic two thumbs up. I wish I had a couple dozen copies of to give to any and every person who is struggling through any sort of difficulty.

Mr. Chin tells of the many trials he and his family went through and the lessons God taught him through it. As the saying goes: when it rains, it pours. And this was the case in his life. By trial after fiery trial, life seemed to pound away at his faith and patience. In the end, with God's grace and strength, he and his family got through it and are now more capable of helping others through their own difficulties.

"Blindsided By God" was at once readable, touching and teaching. Even though, in this season, I'm not facing a difficult situation, I know that I'm better prepared for whatever tomorrow holds because I read this book. It also helped me to know how to help others.

This review might be short and sweet but I mean every word of it. GREAT BOOK!

BTW, I was given a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. Anyone who has read any of my other reviews knows that I can be a bit on the harsh side so when I say I loved it, you can know it's a special book.

"Nourished: A Search for Health, Happiness and a Full Night's Sleep" Review and Giveaway

•Cluttered Surroundings
•Exhaustion of parenting
•Time-starved marriages
•Feeling like a spiritual slacker
•Crowded Schedules
•Negative Body Image

Do you have issues with any of the above? Don't answer "No" because I'd hate to have to call you out on your lying tendencies.

Okay, question number 2:
Have you ever noticed that,like Pinterest, self-help books can be inspiring and deflating all at once? Because with the same words that are meant to encourage us to, say, overcome the fear of someone seeing our flabby thighs, they deflate us by pointing out we have flabby thighs that need overcoming!

By the end of the first chapter of "Nourished: A Search for Health, Happiness and a Full Night's Sleep", by mother/daughter team Becky Johnson and Rachel Randolph, I felt so upset with my life and house and children and husband and, and, and... that I didn't know what was stronger - anger or despair. But slowly, as the chapters went on, I came to love these two gals who were reminding me to relax and that I'm beautiful.

Of the two, it would seem I am a great deal more like the daughter of the duo than the mother. (which might be why I enjoyed the mother's stories more - they didn't hit so close to home) A number of times while reading "Nourished", I thought, these women have read my diary! Maybe I should write a book. However, I don't think I could write it in nearly the charming way they did. This really is a charming book but I would caution against some of the advice they give - not so much because it's bad advice per se but because anything can be taken to the extreme. For example: they recommend pairing up an unpleasant task with something you enjoy - like having a glass of wine while you make dinner. But if I had a glass of wine with every task I disliked, I might be drunk all day sometimes. And I've tried to "get the whole family involved with making supper", like the book suggests, before. Disaster. Instead of the kids just complaining about what was before them at the supper table, they now got to complain about the making of supper.

While I wholeheartedly agree with the you-have-to-put-your-own-oxygen-mask-on-yourself-first rule, it's also wise to remember that Jesus never put Himself first and He is our ultimate role model. Mind you, He did steal away by Himself to pray.






I'm having a draw on February 12th, 2015 for a copy of this book. Leave a comment below to get your name in the draw. Good luck!

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"Team Us" book review

I have 5 siblings all brothers except 4 of them. According to birth order I'm number 4. But because my husband and I got married a few days after I was out of high school, I got married before any of them. It also means I got married before all of my friends. What I didn't realize at the time was that handing out marriage advice based on your own union is a bad idea because no other couple out there just like the two of you.

Now don't get me wrong, "Team Us" by Ashleigh Slater is not all advice based on her marriage but at times it come across that way. And I can't say I loved the blurps by her husband Ted either because hearing a man talk about what he wants his wife to do doesn't help me to know what's going on in MY husband's head. It doesn't always translate in real life. In fact, my husband often jokes about women's magazines and says, "Well, I guess I'd better read some of these to find out what I'm really thinking."

Most of the advice given in "Team Us" was the usual: communicate, give, surrender... I can't say as that a single page inspired me to change in the least. (Maybe I'm just that great of a wife already ha ha) Nothing the author said was wrong; it was just sort of, well, pithy. I was on vacation when I read it and as I started into it, my mother, who was sitting beside me, said, "Let me know if you come across anything good." My reply a few moments later was, "I'm skimming." Not a good sign.

I have been married 18 years and can honestly say it's getting better and better all the time. And truth be told, I bet this book would have been far more valuable to me in the beginning - before I learned the hard way simple yet life changing truths like - don't say anything bad about your husband and be kind. And in fact, if someone who was in the first few years of marriage wanted to read it, I'd be encouraging because there are lots of things that are new to me that seem like old news to others. But if I hadn't learned it, I STILL wouldn't know it. "Team US" just isn't for those who have been married for any length of time. (I almost didn't be past the first few pages because the author said we were supposed to read it as a couple. Right there she proved she doesn't understand the dynamic of most couples.)

I'm having a draw for a free copy of this book on February 12th so leave a comment if you want in. Good luck!

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Only one entrant per mailing address, per giveaway. If you have won the same prize on another blog, you are not eligible to win it again. Winner is subject to eligibility verification.”