Well obviously I'm not a guy. But this didn't stop me from gleaning great advice and insight from "Wise Guys" by Kent Evans. In a society that prizes independence above all else, and songs like "I Did it My Way" are hits, it was refreshing to hear someone say, "Oooor, we could stop and learn from someone who has already been down this road and learned a thing or two." Bingo.
A few of Mr. Evans points stopped me in my tracks and got my brain thinking. Like: Instead of asking your kids what they want to do for a living, ask them what they want to be. Kind? Adventurous? A great artist? And then, encourage them to seek out people who have managed to become that and ask them how. Brilliant! How many people say, "One day I'm going to be famous."but then end up working a job they hate their entire life for lack of a plan. Okay, maybe being famous isn't a great goal but you get my drift. How do we become anything without taking the required steps to get there?
The author also touched on using your words wisely, being teachable and gracious, the importance of volunteering etc. These points were taught through his life stories - many of which were humorous. I have no negatives to mention about "Wise Guys" especially considering that I am not the intended audience. I suggested both of my teenage sons read it and encourage you to suggest the same to your teen/early 20s son. I take that back - this book is good for guys of any age.
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Thanks Gabrielle! When I first read the title, I thought, "Huh, Gabrielle is into books on the mafia". After all, you did say it was for the guys.
ReplyDeleteI like his question of 'what do you want to be?' I ask Emmanuel "What do you want to be known for."
Anyhow, since I won recently and am not eligible, I think I'll go get this one for myself. |
Thanks!